When my granddaughter was a preschooler I often kept her at my home. She had lots of creative activities at her disposal, and because the items for the activities were stored in her play space she didn’t have to wait on me to give requested resources or permission.
She had the freedom to choose if she wanted to make soups or cakes from the ingredients in her toy kitchen, paint pictures or string jewelry from her art center, care for her lifelike babydolls with all their appurtenances or her mini dolls in their playhouses, play Tornado Warning! hiding herself and family of dolls under a blanket behind the sofa while the sound from a YouTube video of an approaching tornado with my Weather Station narration provided drama, relax at the end of the day with a favorite TV show, or go outside on the patio.
In order for my granddaughter to have dominion not only over the environment – but most essentially over herself – she had to be free to take action. This was not a structured daycare or preschool where she was instructed what to do, when and how.
As a result my granddaughter’s productions were highly imperfect – the soups vile, the cakes edible only for a taste, the pictures gross caricatures, the jewelry usually abandoned as being too tedious to continue, the dolls never wearing coordinated clothes, and every room in complete disarray when she went home.
But the product was not what was important, it was the process of developing the skills, most of all the social skills for a healthy personality and relationships. She said she loved being here with me, and I loved having her here and the relationship we built while interacting.
As the adult, I provided a healthy environment and set the rules for safety for an inquisitive child within her capabilities. As the child, she trusted my judgment. Our mutual respect is what allowed her to independently choose a TV show, get a snack or piece of candy from the pantry without asking my permission, go into any room or the patio outside without needing me to escort her everywhere.
Can we apply that to a relationship between God and his family?

